Kind of confused on the grinds. Looking to get a 50 and 54 degree. I would like to use them both to take full swings with-- 120ish & 100ish. Live and play only in southern California where it rarely rains (except right now). Was looking for any input on which grind to go with. Also, for any of you who have these wedges-- do you play the same shaft as your iron? Get a different one? Can you really tell the difference? Thank you.